"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girls with tattoos?

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I'd like to say I have a good head on my shoulders...but just because I made some dumb decisions when I was younger, I'm automatically judged as being fVcked up...

I got mine when I was 16. 16!!! 12 years ago, I am not that same person and I was never a ho or had mental problems. I am not "covered", but I have on my hip, one on my ankle, one on my stomach and one on my wrist. (That I got in my 20's and it means something to me..) The rest, yeah..my sister got one and I thought "oh cool..." That's how we are when we're younger..it doesn't make us who we are. They are all SO small and could never be seen unless I show you. They are also not a exbfs initials, skulls, crosses, bones or anything stupid like that. They are all something that has to do with me and I can tell you, then when people who have even known me for YEARS find out I have tattoos...they are shocked.

These people don't act in a certain way...doctors, lawyers, shrinks all have them too.

That's my rant, haha. Glad you agree with me oak.
Post a nude picture so we can see. Then will critique the art work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think they're sexy too, but they are usually nothin but trouble. I've learned not to get too involved with them. I know TONS of fully sleeved chicks and some are hot, and they're all cool to hang out with, but in general they are more nuts than normal chicks, and more trouble than they're worth.
 

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hos like using their tattos to help you get physical with them faster....

Her: I have a tattoo
Him: What is it of and where is it..
Her: A rose on my lower hip!
Him: can I see it?

BINGO!!!!!
 

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woods said:
I think they're sexy too, but they are usually nothin but trouble. I've learned not to get too involved with them. I know TONS of fully sleeved chicks and some are hot, and they're all cool to hang out with, but in general they are more nuts than normal chicks, and more trouble than they're worth.
The messed up part is that women with no tatoos are just as hoey as those with them..LOL They just dont want you to suspect them...
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I like tats on chicks as long as;

*they're done by decent artists
*shes not covered in them
*the 1 or 2 she has are big peices (full back, shoulder, sleeve, thigh)

Any chick who meets those three goes up two points on my 10 scale.
 

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I don't mind a tat on a chick, and yeah I think women who have tats are probably somewhat easier to bed, from my experience. I know that sounds like a stereotype, but stereotypes have a basis in fact.

But here's a thought: It's part of the masculinizing of women, isn't it? Used to be tattoos were something sailors drunk in foreign ports did, bikers did, criminals did, bad boys did. Now, ever increasingly, women do.
 
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