"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girls with tattoos?

tryin 2 play

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So whats everyone's opinions on girls with tattoos? I just met this girl at school, and she SEEMS great. I havven't asked her out yet, because my girlfreind and I haven't officially broken up yet, but its defintely comming. Anyway, I can tell this girl has definite high interest in me, so she would gladly go out with me.

Like I said, she SEEMS like a great girl. She has a bio major in school, with a double minor, coaches swimming to youg kids, and is a competetive swimmer herself. Doesn't drink. She is extremely cute. The one thing that makes me wonder about her is that she has a bunch of tattoos. They are all REALLY small tattoos, like on her ankles or whatever. They are nothing really noticeable at all, but she has 4, and is planing on getting 2 more this week.

I know its silly to make judgements about people, but in my experience, girls with a lot of tattoos tend to be trouble. All other signs point to a great chick, with her head on her shoulders, but the tattoos make me feel a bit different.

Anyway, what are your thoughts on chicks with a few tattoos? Not looking for ANSWERS on what to do really, just looking for thoguths and experiences. Thanks guys!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I tend to not be attracted to women with tattoos. They just seem low class to me. However I once fell in love with a woman with tattoos.
 

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depends on location and taste for me. Ankles are cool, as long as they aren't jailhouse ink or the grim reaper lol

I can't STAND TRAMP STAMPS. Tats over the butt is a wh0rish thing...rates up there with thongs sticking out to me.
 

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We are living in a culture of tatooing and women will follow any trend that deems to be cool so they can feel as if they aren't left out.

Having few tattoos doesn't tell you if she will be trouble or not. Anyway you aren't marrying her right?! so why not just go out and have fun with her?!
 
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i love girls with tats....as long as there not covered in them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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How many girls without tattoos are f*cked up in the head?
 

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Moofahsa said:
depends on location and taste for me. Ankles are cool, as long as they aren't jailhouse ink or the grim reaper lol

I can't STAND TRAMP STAMPS. Tats over the butt is a wh0rish thing...rates up there with thongs sticking out to me.
Try the Gay websites. So Suave is for heterosexual males. Thanks. :up:
 

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tryin 2 play said:
So whats everyone's opinions on girls with tattoos? I just met this girl at school, and she SEEMS great. I havven't asked her out yet, because my girlfreind and I haven't officially broken up yet, but its defintely comming. Anyway, I can tell this girl has definite high interest in me, so she would gladly go out with me.

Like I said, she SEEMS like a great girl. She has a bio major in school, with a double minor, coaches swimming to youg kids, and is a competetive swimmer herself. Doesn't drink. She is extremely cute. The one thing that makes me wonder about her is that she has a bunch of tattoos. They are all REALLY small tattoos, like on her ankles or whatever. They are nothing really noticeable at all, but she has 4, and is planing on getting 2 more this week.

I know its silly to make judgements about people, but in my experience, girls with a lot of tattoos tend to be trouble. All other signs point to a great chick, with her head on her shoulders, but the tattoos make me feel a bit different.

Anyway, what are your thoughts on chicks with a few tattoos? Not looking for ANSWERS on what to do really, just looking for thoguths and experiences. Thanks guys!!
First "officially" break up with your gf, then ask her out and have her say yes, then see if you can some physical affection from her, then see if the tattoos bother you.

If she doesn't like your personality after 2 dates, you won't have to bring the tattoos up as a subject of conversation.
 

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Tattoos and belly piercings is the sexiest thing a woman can have IMO
 

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I told a girl once that I didn't like tatoos and she left me. Guess she had tatoos somewhere I didn't know about.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AznPlaya

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Tattoos look hella sexy when your old owww... sike lolz fuc that sht, iz ok on guyz but i don c the point.
 

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Personally, I'm turned off by tattoos on women. If the girl has a great body I don't want to see it ruined by "graffitti". The worst is on a nice breast that was perfect before the tattoo but ruined by what looks like a blotch from a distance.
 

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romangod said:
Personally, I'm turned off by tattoos on women. If the girl has a great body I don't want to see it ruined by "graffitti". The worst is on a nice breast that was perfect before the tattoo but ruined by what looks like a blotch from a distance.
Again, try "Georgemichael.com" and you can find some dates in men's restrooms in Bus Depots across America, So suave is for men who love women, thanks.
 

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living out next to a tattoo shop, I am somewhat knowledged it this dept.. A couple few little ones does not mean she's messed up at all. Generally, though, chicks who are sleeved up have the same kind of issues as guys with sleeves do. They are "bad girls." It doesnt mean they're bad people at all. But it means they have grown up in the rough crowd, punk rock, drugs, sluttiness, whatever, which I have nothing against, cuz that's me too, but they're not dating material. I want a friggin' NORMAL chick.
 

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Tattoos on girls...not good. They just look better without them than with. And the tattoos always have some stupid meaning like they think they are so deep. Oh geez shut up.

Someone said it earlier...its the cool thing to do nowadays and if they don't have 1 they feel left out. Also I think they think its a convo starter. "oh you got one , thats nice..heres mine...what do you think..you like it..etc"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know a lot of girls that have a tattoo around their ankle or their lower back, I'm fine with that, but I know another girl that has one around her entire shoulder that extends all the way to her blade, doesn't look good IMO.
 

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I know that guys that dont have Tattoos, that have a problem with women having them cannot handle pain. (LOL)
 

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I think tatto right above the butty is hot but anywhere else its blahhh. As long as she isnt covered in them i am willing to give her a chance to prove herself.
 

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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