Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
I particularly liked this part....Originally posted by Elfynne
If you had called me that to my face, you would probably be lying on the ground bleeding by now.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I particularly liked this part....Originally posted by Elfynne
If you had called me that to my face, you would probably be lying on the ground bleeding by now.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hit on one of them and find out. Think of it as a little experiment with an added bonus - you'll get laid.Originally posted by Elfynne
My guy friends do NOT want me.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
well.. now. elfynne. i just want you to read my post. really. it would be for your own good.Originally posted by Elfynne
My guy friends do NOT want me. Most of them have girlfriends of their own, and their girlfriends and I like each other, too. They are my friends, so I TRUST them.