Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls with guy friends

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You are a intuitive and intelligent bro, entropy. When one has a true partner, they usually choose to spend all their free time with the partner, temporarily excluding friends to a significant degree.



I extend my "philia" to you :).
 
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Beware women with all guy friends unless you want a FB - we all know this.

Also, watch what women do and not what they say - this thread demonstrates that lesson quite nicely.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Still discussing?

I agree with:

Flexion / JT47319 / Dietzcoi / California Love / Entropy / Fatality


HOW MANY TIMES WE HAVE TO SHOUT "BEWARE WITH GIRLS WHO HANG OUT WITH A LOAD OF GUYS!"

Most of the times they're the WRONG choice for LTRship!

They're not trustworthy!

I have nothing against girls that goes around fvcking their "friends" (as long as she's NOT in a LTRship!).

They're just a fvck buddy! If you develop your feelings for them, dont complain we didnt advise you! Go ahead and get ready for a lot of emotional pain!

I'm not saying this because thats what I think but because I have seen it/experienced this!

P.S: Come on guys, let the girl alone! If you don't like her, just ignore her! EASY!

Phoenix!
 
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DJ Alejandro

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Originally posted by Elfynne
My guy friends do NOT want me. Most of them have girlfriends of their own, and their girlfriends and I like each other, too. They are my friends, so I TRUST them.
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well.. now. elfynne. i just want you to read my post. really. it would be for your own good.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55815

and for others who have not commented, you can now do.
 
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Elfynne is gone....:(

She got tired of all these "DJ's" calling her a cvnt
 
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