"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls with guy friends

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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California Love

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You are a intuitive and intelligent bro, entropy. When one has a true partner, they usually choose to spend all their free time with the partner, temporarily excluding friends to a significant degree.



I extend my "philia" to you :).
 

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Beware women with all guy friends unless you want a FB - we all know this.

Also, watch what women do and not what they say - this thread demonstrates that lesson quite nicely.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Still discussing?

I agree with:

Flexion / JT47319 / Dietzcoi / California Love / Entropy / Fatality


HOW MANY TIMES WE HAVE TO SHOUT "BEWARE WITH GIRLS WHO HANG OUT WITH A LOAD OF GUYS!"

Most of the times they're the WRONG choice for LTRship!

They're not trustworthy!

I have nothing against girls that goes around fvcking their "friends" (as long as she's NOT in a LTRship!).

They're just a fvck buddy! If you develop your feelings for them, dont complain we didnt advise you! Go ahead and get ready for a lot of emotional pain!

I'm not saying this because thats what I think but because I have seen it/experienced this!

P.S: Come on guys, let the girl alone! If you don't like her, just ignore her! EASY!

Phoenix!
 
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DJ Alejandro

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Originally posted by Elfynne
My guy friends do NOT want me. Most of them have girlfriends of their own, and their girlfriends and I like each other, too. They are my friends, so I TRUST them.
well.. now. elfynne. i just want you to read my post. really. it would be for your own good.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55815

and for others who have not commented, you can now do.
 

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Elfynne is gone....:(

She got tired of all these "DJ's" calling her a cvnt
 
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