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Master Don Juan
I particularly liked this part....Originally posted by Elfynne
If you had called me that to my face, you would probably be lying on the ground bleeding by now.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I particularly liked this part....Originally posted by Elfynne
If you had called me that to my face, you would probably be lying on the ground bleeding by now.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hit on one of them and find out. Think of it as a little experiment with an added bonus - you'll get laid.Originally posted by Elfynne
My guy friends do NOT want me.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
well.. now. elfynne. i just want you to read my post. really. it would be for your own good.Originally posted by Elfynne
My guy friends do NOT want me. Most of them have girlfriends of their own, and their girlfriends and I like each other, too. They are my friends, so I TRUST them.