"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls with guy friends

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You are a intuitive and intelligent bro, entropy. When one has a true partner, they usually choose to spend all their free time with the partner, temporarily excluding friends to a significant degree.



I extend my "philia" to you :).
 
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Beware women with all guy friends unless you want a FB - we all know this.

Also, watch what women do and not what they say - this thread demonstrates that lesson quite nicely.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Still discussing?

I agree with:

Flexion / JT47319 / Dietzcoi / California Love / Entropy / Fatality


HOW MANY TIMES WE HAVE TO SHOUT "BEWARE WITH GIRLS WHO HANG OUT WITH A LOAD OF GUYS!"

Most of the times they're the WRONG choice for LTRship!

They're not trustworthy!

I have nothing against girls that goes around fvcking their "friends" (as long as she's NOT in a LTRship!).

They're just a fvck buddy! If you develop your feelings for them, dont complain we didnt advise you! Go ahead and get ready for a lot of emotional pain!

I'm not saying this because thats what I think but because I have seen it/experienced this!

P.S: Come on guys, let the girl alone! If you don't like her, just ignore her! EASY!

Phoenix!
 
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Originally posted by Elfynne
My guy friends do NOT want me. Most of them have girlfriends of their own, and their girlfriends and I like each other, too. They are my friends, so I TRUST them.
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well.. now. elfynne. i just want you to read my post. really. it would be for your own good.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55815

and for others who have not commented, you can now do.
 
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Elfynne is gone....:(

She got tired of all these "DJ's" calling her a cvnt
 
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