Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This is what I was looking forBTW, nearly all of these chicks are completely fvcked up as you get to know them and should be plates only. Few of them like sh!t like this and are also mentally right in the head.
Such a loonie profile picture... Such masterful words... The contrast is astonishing.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
True. One of the women I'm seeing now loves the choking and hair pulling, she likes it rough, but you as a man have to know how far you can take it because you can hurt a women if you are not careful.... I draw the line at BD-SM... not because I think there is anything wrong with it, if you have a couple of people really into it... it's just that it does nothing for me. A little role playing with hand-cuffs and velvet rope is fine, but women who like to be whipped and strung up and tied tight to machines, needs to find a dude that is into that, because it isn't me.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.True. One of the women I'm seeing now loves the choking and hair pulling, she likes it rough, but you as a man have to know how far you can take it because you can hurt a women if you are not careful.... I draw the line at BD-SM... not because I think there is anything wrong with it, if you have a couple of people really into it... it's just that it does nothing for me. A little role playing with hand-cuffs and velvet rope is fine, but women who like to be whipped and strung up and tied tight to machines, needs to find a dude that is into that, because it isn't me.
LTR?I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.
Wow, I just learned something new. It's absolutely true. It's interesting because at the same time this site has taught us that a woman surrenders all of her power when she finally lets you penetrate. It's all relative though. The only way a woman will have power over you is if you commit to her/invest.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Careful how you tred with a girl like this. The same ones that like choking and rough stuff, a lot of the time are the same ones that will go crying to their and your friends crying abuse.I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.
out of all the chicks I've fvcked only 2 have ever told me to tone it down a bit
regardless of how prudish they seem on the outside , every single one of them has an inner sl*ut inside them dying to be released
some of the stuff I've seen "normal" women do over the years , honest to god it would keep you up at night![]()
LOL. Imagine your kindergarten teacher taking it up the ass!Thats the way it works sometimes.
I hung out with a kindergarten teacher last summer. Super sweet and shy personality. She was too religious to drink on the first meet up, but 2 days later she was into anal on our 2nd meet up.
Weird. I try to treat them all like the sloots they are inside and it works good for me.
She was a solid HB7. 7.5 after she did the deedLOL. Imagine your kindergarten teacher taking it up the ass!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.