You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This is what I was looking forBTW, nearly all of these chicks are completely fvcked up as you get to know them and should be plates only. Few of them like sh!t like this and are also mentally right in the head.
Such a loonie profile picture... Such masterful words... The contrast is astonishing.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
True. One of the women I'm seeing now loves the choking and hair pulling, she likes it rough, but you as a man have to know how far you can take it because you can hurt a women if you are not careful.... I draw the line at BD-SM... not because I think there is anything wrong with it, if you have a couple of people really into it... it's just that it does nothing for me. A little role playing with hand-cuffs and velvet rope is fine, but women who like to be whipped and strung up and tied tight to machines, needs to find a dude that is into that, because it isn't me.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.True. One of the women I'm seeing now loves the choking and hair pulling, she likes it rough, but you as a man have to know how far you can take it because you can hurt a women if you are not careful.... I draw the line at BD-SM... not because I think there is anything wrong with it, if you have a couple of people really into it... it's just that it does nothing for me. A little role playing with hand-cuffs and velvet rope is fine, but women who like to be whipped and strung up and tied tight to machines, needs to find a dude that is into that, because it isn't me.
LTR?I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.
Wow, I just learned something new. It's absolutely true. It's interesting because at the same time this site has taught us that a woman surrenders all of her power when she finally lets you penetrate. It's all relative though. The only way a woman will have power over you is if you commit to her/invest.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Careful how you tred with a girl like this. The same ones that like choking and rough stuff, a lot of the time are the same ones that will go crying to their and your friends crying abuse.I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.
out of all the chicks I've fvcked only 2 have ever told me to tone it down a bit
regardless of how prudish they seem on the outside , every single one of them has an inner sl*ut inside them dying to be released
some of the stuff I've seen "normal" women do over the years , honest to god it would keep you up at night![]()
LOL. Imagine your kindergarten teacher taking it up the ass!Thats the way it works sometimes.
I hung out with a kindergarten teacher last summer. Super sweet and shy personality. She was too religious to drink on the first meet up, but 2 days later she was into anal on our 2nd meet up.
Weird. I try to treat them all like the sloots they are inside and it works good for me.
She was a solid HB7. 7.5 after she did the deedLOL. Imagine your kindergarten teacher taking it up the ass!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.