Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is what I was looking forBTW, nearly all of these chicks are completely fvcked up as you get to know them and should be plates only. Few of them like sh!t like this and are also mentally right in the head.
Such a loonie profile picture... Such masterful words... The contrast is astonishing.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
True. One of the women I'm seeing now loves the choking and hair pulling, she likes it rough, but you as a man have to know how far you can take it because you can hurt a women if you are not careful.... I draw the line at BD-SM... not because I think there is anything wrong with it, if you have a couple of people really into it... it's just that it does nothing for me. A little role playing with hand-cuffs and velvet rope is fine, but women who like to be whipped and strung up and tied tight to machines, needs to find a dude that is into that, because it isn't me.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.True. One of the women I'm seeing now loves the choking and hair pulling, she likes it rough, but you as a man have to know how far you can take it because you can hurt a women if you are not careful.... I draw the line at BD-SM... not because I think there is anything wrong with it, if you have a couple of people really into it... it's just that it does nothing for me. A little role playing with hand-cuffs and velvet rope is fine, but women who like to be whipped and strung up and tied tight to machines, needs to find a dude that is into that, because it isn't me.
LTR?I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.
Wow, I just learned something new. It's absolutely true. It's interesting because at the same time this site has taught us that a woman surrenders all of her power when she finally lets you penetrate. It's all relative though. The only way a woman will have power over you is if you commit to her/invest.All women like being dominated in some fashion and will only submit to a man who is able to achieve this.
Always remember that a woman's greatest strength comes not from domination but from submission. It's where she is easily able to control the strongest men.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Careful how you tred with a girl like this. The same ones that like choking and rough stuff, a lot of the time are the same ones that will go crying to their and your friends crying abuse.I guess I was looking for a little more insight on potential LTR material.
out of all the chicks I've fvcked only 2 have ever told me to tone it down a bit
regardless of how prudish they seem on the outside , every single one of them has an inner sl*ut inside them dying to be released
some of the stuff I've seen "normal" women do over the years , honest to god it would keep you up at night![]()
LOL. Imagine your kindergarten teacher taking it up the ass!Thats the way it works sometimes.
I hung out with a kindergarten teacher last summer. Super sweet and shy personality. She was too religious to drink on the first meet up, but 2 days later she was into anal on our 2nd meet up.
Weird. I try to treat them all like the sloots they are inside and it works good for me.
She was a solid HB7. 7.5 after she did the deedLOL. Imagine your kindergarten teacher taking it up the ass!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.