"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girls who keep pics of their exes on FB

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So I has having a look at one of my old FWB who happens to have a boyfriend for around a year now, right after we stopped seing each other.

Anyway, I was looking at her pics and I saw that she still keeps lots of pictures with her previous boyfriend; she even has some pics in which they are either hugging or kissing on the lips.

For me, if I was her current boyfriend this would be totally unacceptable but I was wondering what you guys think about it, and if you've had similar experiences.

Why da fvck do some women keep pics of their previous boyfriends in social media when they have another relationship now?

I cant really understand it. It is not like they have just two pics and they are somwhere hidden on their facebook, like in a folder from 4 years ago. Nope, they basically have pictures with their current boyfriend and just a few rows below, they have previous pics with previous relationships.

Is this a red flag?
A sign of total disinterest?
A sign that they are fvcked up in the head?

You know, if you start a new relationship and it is something serious etc, I think the least you can do is remove all pictures from previous relationships...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pyros said:
You know, if you start a new relationship and it is something serious etc, I think the least you can do is remove all pictures from previous relationships...
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Meh, some people don't really use FB or care. Maybe the guy doesn't give a sh*t or the girl forgot they're there.
 
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An album of their life story.... personnally I wouldn't mind cause I am the one with her.... and its the ''guys after'' that matters.

Some girls are too busy to care about social media so they forget.

I basically keep my exes pic to show how cool I am :p... but on a serious base.... they don't evoke anything for me anymore.... if my GF would want me to delete them... I would just hide them and tell her how she's the one now.

Facebook is a journal for me, I wouldn't be bothered by it... also it might mean they broke on a good term
 
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It's not the ones they have pictures with you need to worry about ;)


Source: Experience
 
marmel75

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That stuff is for dudes who are hoping to get with the chick to worry about...

The dude who's with her is too busy fvcking her nightly to care
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Social proof thing....don't worry about it. I keep pics of a few girls I've banged, dated or been in a relationship with before.
 
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Von said:
An album of their life story.... personnally I wouldn't mind cause I am the one with her.... and its the ''guys after'' that matters.

Some girls are too busy to care about social media so they forget.

I basically keep my exes pic to show how cool I am :p... but on a serious base.... they don't evoke anything for me anymore.... if my GF would want me to delete them... I would just hide them and tell her how she's the one now.

Facebook is a journal for me, I wouldn't be bothered by it... also it might mean they broke on a good term
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If I am seeking a relationship with a girl or in a relationship with a girl and if she still wants to keep the pictures and does not want to delete the pictures of her ex(es), I would start look for another girl who was never in a relationship or does not keep any traces of her ex(es). I would dump this girl as soon as I find a girl that honors my wishes. Call me controlling, but that's what I am and I don't change for others. I would do the same for her.

Hiding those pictures will not work, only deleting them will. Cool? Broke on good terms? Social proof? My arse. You set a standard and you let the girl meet that standard. That's what a man does.
 
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Vivacity said:
If I am seeking a relationship with a girl or in a relationship with a girl and if she still wants to keep the pictures and does not want to delete the pictures of her ex(es), I would start look for another girl who was never in a relationship or does not keep any traces of her ex(es). I would dump this girl as soon as I find a girl that honors my wishes. Call me controlling, but that's what I am and I don't change for others. I would do the same for her.

Hiding those pictures will not work, only deleting them will. Cool? Broke on good terms? Social proof? My arse. You set a standard and you let the girl meet that standard. That's what a man does.
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Its called insecurity no matter how you want to rationalize it.
 
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Yewki said:
Meh, some people don't really use FB or care. Maybe the guy doesn't give a sh*t or the girl forgot they're there.
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girls dont forget anything

if they are there , then they're for a reason
 
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Girls never ever 100% let go of any guy they dated. Thats just a fact of life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Read Desdinova's High Score Theory. That will answer this thread, and likely close it.
 
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