girls who keep pics of their exes on FB

[pyros]

So I has having a look at one of my old FWB who happens to have a boyfriend for around a year now, right after we stopped seing each other.

Anyway, I was looking at her pics and I saw that she still keeps lots of pictures with her previous boyfriend; she even has some pics in which they are either hugging or kissing on the lips.

For me, if I was her current boyfriend this would be totally unacceptable but I was wondering what you guys think about it, and if you've had similar experiences.

Why da fvck do some women keep pics of their previous boyfriends in social media when they have another relationship now?

I cant really understand it. It is not like they have just two pics and they are somwhere hidden on their facebook, like in a folder from 4 years ago. Nope, they basically have pictures with their current boyfriend and just a few rows below, they have previous pics with previous relationships.

Is this a red flag?
A sign of total disinterest?
A sign that they are fvcked up in the head?

You know, if you start a new relationship and it is something serious etc, I think the least you can do is remove all pictures from previous relationships...

 

[Yewki]

You know, if you start a new relationship and it is something serious etc, I think the least you can do is remove all pictures from previous relationships...

Meh, some people don't really use FB or care. Maybe the guy doesn't give a sh*t or the girl forgot they're there.

 

[Von]

An album of their life story.... personnally I wouldn't mind cause I am the one with her.... and its the ''guys after'' that matters.

Some girls are too busy to care about social media so they forget.

I basically keep my exes pic to show how cool I am ... but on a serious base.... they don't evoke anything for me anymore.... if my GF would want me to delete them... I would just hide them and tell her how she's the one now.

Facebook is a journal for me, I wouldn't be bothered by it... also it might mean they broke on a good term

 

[fastlife]

It's not the ones they have pictures with you need to worry about


Source: Experience

 

[marmel75]

That stuff is for dudes who are hoping to get with the chick to worry about...

The dude who's with her is too busy fvcking her nightly to care

 

[zinc4]

Social proof thing....don't worry about it. I keep pics of a few girls I've banged, dated or been in a relationship with before.

 

[Vivacity]

An album of their life story.... personnally I wouldn't mind cause I am the one with her.... and its the ''guys after'' that matters.

Some girls are too busy to care about social media so they forget.

I basically keep my exes pic to show how cool I am ... but on a serious base.... they don't evoke anything for me anymore.... if my GF would want me to delete them... I would just hide them and tell her how she's the one now.

Facebook is a journal for me, I wouldn't be bothered by it... also it might mean they broke on a good term

If I am seeking a relationship with a girl or in a relationship with a girl and if she still wants to keep the pictures and does not want to delete the pictures of her ex(es), I would start look for another girl who was never in a relationship or does not keep any traces of her ex(es). I would dump this girl as soon as I find a girl that honors my wishes. Call me controlling, but that's what I am and I don't change for others. I would do the same for her.

Hiding those pictures will not work, only deleting them will. Cool? Broke on good terms? Social proof? My arse. You set a standard and you let the girl meet that standard. That's what a man does.

 

[marmel75]

If I am seeking a relationship with a girl or in a relationship with a girl and if she still wants to keep the pictures and does not want to delete the pictures of her ex(es), I would start look for another girl who was never in a relationship or does not keep any traces of her ex(es). I would dump this girl as soon as I find a girl that honors my wishes. Call me controlling, but that's what I am and I don't change for others. I would do the same for her.

Hiding those pictures will not work, only deleting them will. Cool? Broke on good terms? Social proof? My arse. You set a standard and you let the girl meet that standard. That's what a man does.

Its called insecurity no matter how you want to rationalize it.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Meh, some people don't really use FB or care. Maybe the guy doesn't give a sh*t or the girl forgot they're there.

girls dont forget anything

if they are there , then they're for a reason

 

[dude99]

Girls never ever 100% let go of any guy they dated. Thats just a fact of life.

 

[nismo-4]

Read Desdinova's High Score Theory. That will answer this thread, and likely close it.