"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girls who keep pics of their exes on FB

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So I has having a look at one of my old FWB who happens to have a boyfriend for around a year now, right after we stopped seing each other.

Anyway, I was looking at her pics and I saw that she still keeps lots of pictures with her previous boyfriend; she even has some pics in which they are either hugging or kissing on the lips.

For me, if I was her current boyfriend this would be totally unacceptable but I was wondering what you guys think about it, and if you've had similar experiences.

Why da fvck do some women keep pics of their previous boyfriends in social media when they have another relationship now?

I cant really understand it. It is not like they have just two pics and they are somwhere hidden on their facebook, like in a folder from 4 years ago. Nope, they basically have pictures with their current boyfriend and just a few rows below, they have previous pics with previous relationships.

Is this a red flag?
A sign of total disinterest?
A sign that they are fvcked up in the head?

You know, if you start a new relationship and it is something serious etc, I think the least you can do is remove all pictures from previous relationships...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pyros said:
You know, if you start a new relationship and it is something serious etc, I think the least you can do is remove all pictures from previous relationships...
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Meh, some people don't really use FB or care. Maybe the guy doesn't give a sh*t or the girl forgot they're there.
 
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An album of their life story.... personnally I wouldn't mind cause I am the one with her.... and its the ''guys after'' that matters.

Some girls are too busy to care about social media so they forget.

I basically keep my exes pic to show how cool I am :p... but on a serious base.... they don't evoke anything for me anymore.... if my GF would want me to delete them... I would just hide them and tell her how she's the one now.

Facebook is a journal for me, I wouldn't be bothered by it... also it might mean they broke on a good term
 
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It's not the ones they have pictures with you need to worry about ;)


Source: Experience
 
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That stuff is for dudes who are hoping to get with the chick to worry about...

The dude who's with her is too busy fvcking her nightly to care
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Social proof thing....don't worry about it. I keep pics of a few girls I've banged, dated or been in a relationship with before.
 
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Von said:
An album of their life story.... personnally I wouldn't mind cause I am the one with her.... and its the ''guys after'' that matters.

Some girls are too busy to care about social media so they forget.

I basically keep my exes pic to show how cool I am :p... but on a serious base.... they don't evoke anything for me anymore.... if my GF would want me to delete them... I would just hide them and tell her how she's the one now.

Facebook is a journal for me, I wouldn't be bothered by it... also it might mean they broke on a good term
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If I am seeking a relationship with a girl or in a relationship with a girl and if she still wants to keep the pictures and does not want to delete the pictures of her ex(es), I would start look for another girl who was never in a relationship or does not keep any traces of her ex(es). I would dump this girl as soon as I find a girl that honors my wishes. Call me controlling, but that's what I am and I don't change for others. I would do the same for her.

Hiding those pictures will not work, only deleting them will. Cool? Broke on good terms? Social proof? My arse. You set a standard and you let the girl meet that standard. That's what a man does.
 
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Vivacity said:
If I am seeking a relationship with a girl or in a relationship with a girl and if she still wants to keep the pictures and does not want to delete the pictures of her ex(es), I would start look for another girl who was never in a relationship or does not keep any traces of her ex(es). I would dump this girl as soon as I find a girl that honors my wishes. Call me controlling, but that's what I am and I don't change for others. I would do the same for her.

Hiding those pictures will not work, only deleting them will. Cool? Broke on good terms? Social proof? My arse. You set a standard and you let the girl meet that standard. That's what a man does.
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Its called insecurity no matter how you want to rationalize it.
 
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Yewki said:
Meh, some people don't really use FB or care. Maybe the guy doesn't give a sh*t or the girl forgot they're there.
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girls dont forget anything

if they are there , then they're for a reason
 
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Girls never ever 100% let go of any guy they dated. Thats just a fact of life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Read Desdinova's High Score Theory. That will answer this thread, and likely close it.
 
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