Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls using neg-hits?

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This girl asked me out yesterday. Today she sends me a message which basically neg-hits me and reminds me that i have a date with her.
How cool is that. I like when the ball is in my court. I feel so in control. So many things i can do with the ball before i shoot.
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands. There's so many choices when you're the chooser. :)

Forget the neg-hit, it doesn't even faze me.
All i feel right now is amazement at everything i've learned and seeing it in action. It's like soaring above the clouds and looking down on all the people down on earth not knowing what they're missing. It's like Nirvana.

I just wanted to thank everyone who's a member here and everyone who's come and gone before. Couldn't have done it without you guys.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jay Jay

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Glad you are feeling it!

Yeah, I hear ya. I love it when the girls play the game too; challenging yet interested, teasing yet adoring. Love it...

Have fun, she sounds like a cool chick!

JJ
 

Kwello

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Play the Game said:
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands.
Just make sure you score!
 

lebRambo

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haha, nice work man. Its not all about the girls though. As good as you are feeling now, if it is all about the girls then you will eventually feel equally bad when sh*t isnt going your way.

Harder said than done, but inner game is also valuable.

But props for now, I'm not gonna bring you down :)
 

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mmm..atleast u got a playfull kitty to match up to sosuave skills keep us posted man
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NSUballer

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yea isnt it fun to know you have the upper hand. Im in that situation as well. But me being me Im always looking for something better trying not to get too attached too fast with anyone.
 
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