"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls using neg-hits?

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This girl asked me out yesterday. Today she sends me a message which basically neg-hits me and reminds me that i have a date with her.
How cool is that. I like when the ball is in my court. I feel so in control. So many things i can do with the ball before i shoot.
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands. There's so many choices when you're the chooser. :)

Forget the neg-hit, it doesn't even faze me.
All i feel right now is amazement at everything i've learned and seeing it in action. It's like soaring above the clouds and looking down on all the people down on earth not knowing what they're missing. It's like Nirvana.

I just wanted to thank everyone who's a member here and everyone who's come and gone before. Couldn't have done it without you guys.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jay Jay

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Glad you are feeling it!

Yeah, I hear ya. I love it when the girls play the game too; challenging yet interested, teasing yet adoring. Love it...

Have fun, she sounds like a cool chick!

JJ
 

Kwello

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Play the Game said:
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands.
Just make sure you score!
 

lebRambo

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haha, nice work man. Its not all about the girls though. As good as you are feeling now, if it is all about the girls then you will eventually feel equally bad when sh*t isnt going your way.

Harder said than done, but inner game is also valuable.

But props for now, I'm not gonna bring you down :)
 

afrojiggles

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mmm..atleast u got a playfull kitty to match up to sosuave skills keep us posted man
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NSUballer

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yea isnt it fun to know you have the upper hand. Im in that situation as well. But me being me Im always looking for something better trying not to get too attached too fast with anyone.
 
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