"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls using neg-hits?

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This girl asked me out yesterday. Today she sends me a message which basically neg-hits me and reminds me that i have a date with her.
How cool is that. I like when the ball is in my court. I feel so in control. So many things i can do with the ball before i shoot.
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands. There's so many choices when you're the chooser. :)

Forget the neg-hit, it doesn't even faze me.
All i feel right now is amazement at everything i've learned and seeing it in action. It's like soaring above the clouds and looking down on all the people down on earth not knowing what they're missing. It's like Nirvana.

I just wanted to thank everyone who's a member here and everyone who's come and gone before. Couldn't have done it without you guys.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jay Jay

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Glad you are feeling it!

Yeah, I hear ya. I love it when the girls play the game too; challenging yet interested, teasing yet adoring. Love it...

Have fun, she sounds like a cool chick!

JJ
 

Kwello

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Play the Game said:
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands.
Just make sure you score!
 

lebRambo

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haha, nice work man. Its not all about the girls though. As good as you are feeling now, if it is all about the girls then you will eventually feel equally bad when sh*t isnt going your way.

Harder said than done, but inner game is also valuable.

But props for now, I'm not gonna bring you down :)
 

afrojiggles

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mmm..atleast u got a playfull kitty to match up to sosuave skills keep us posted man
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NSUballer

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yea isnt it fun to know you have the upper hand. Im in that situation as well. But me being me Im always looking for something better trying not to get too attached too fast with anyone.
 
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