"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls using neg-hits?

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This girl asked me out yesterday. Today she sends me a message which basically neg-hits me and reminds me that i have a date with her.
How cool is that. I like when the ball is in my court. I feel so in control. So many things i can do with the ball before i shoot.
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands. There's so many choices when you're the chooser. :)

Forget the neg-hit, it doesn't even faze me.
All i feel right now is amazement at everything i've learned and seeing it in action. It's like soaring above the clouds and looking down on all the people down on earth not knowing what they're missing. It's like Nirvana.

I just wanted to thank everyone who's a member here and everyone who's come and gone before. Couldn't have done it without you guys.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glad you are feeling it!

Yeah, I hear ya. I love it when the girls play the game too; challenging yet interested, teasing yet adoring. Love it...

Have fun, she sounds like a cool chick!

JJ
 
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Play the Game said:
I can do a layup, or maybe a 3 pointer or just throw the ball into the stands.
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Just make sure you score!
 
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haha, nice work man. Its not all about the girls though. As good as you are feeling now, if it is all about the girls then you will eventually feel equally bad when sh*t isnt going your way.

Harder said than done, but inner game is also valuable.

But props for now, I'm not gonna bring you down :)
 
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mmm..atleast u got a playfull kitty to match up to sosuave skills keep us posted man
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yea isnt it fun to know you have the upper hand. Im in that situation as well. But me being me Im always looking for something better trying not to get too attached too fast with anyone.
 
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