It's not "backwards" at all genius. Im stating purely that some girls wanna have fun and if a dude makes the mistake of trying to get serious with that kinda girl with that kind of mindset, he'll get burned. simple. if a girl wants her freedom dont matter how much "game" you have, trying to tie her down to something more than fun will end in drama. Period.bigjohnson said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Girls under the age of 26
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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He said girls (not some girls) who are "at the age of less than 26 and ... attractive is not yet ready to settle" and you agreed he was "spot on".shinko said:It's not "backwards" at all genius. Im stating purely that some girls .
So is it all or some? Some I'd agree with, so make up your fucking mind and then get back to me.
shinko said:I recon your observations are spot on dannyegg.
dannyegg4575 said:First off, a girl at the age of less than 26 and she’s attractive, is not yet ready to settle.
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bigjohnson,
how many do you know who are willing to settle at home and not go out? how many do you know who are willing to settle for one?
With the divorce rate of 67%, how many of the 33% do you think fall into this category?
how many do you know who haven't cheated on their husband at that young age? how many do you know who have actually seen the world and think that marriage is the right thing at that age?
how many do you know who are willing to settle at home and not go out? how many do you know who are willing to settle for one?
With the divorce rate of 67%, how many of the 33% do you think fall into this category?
how many do you know who haven't cheated on their husband at that young age? how many do you know who have actually seen the world and think that marriage is the right thing at that age?
ready123
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what's the point of this thread? are you trying to set an absolute rule in stone that you should not LTR a girl under 26?
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My point is simple... as Suntzu said, "know thy enemy". in dating and relationships, there are no rules...
Many of us guys have false beliefs that a girl at a young age are ready to settle. They're not. By your constantly telling her how much you love her or needing her, you suffocate her. In her mind, she's thinking, "OMG, he's really into me... does that mean that I can't go out and have fun anymore?"
Many of us guys have false beliefs that a girl at a young age are ready to settle. They're not. By your constantly telling her how much you love her or needing her, you suffocate her. In her mind, she's thinking, "OMG, he's really into me... does that mean that I can't go out and have fun anymore?"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ready123
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where'd you get the idea that guys want LTR's more than women?
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reason we're AFC is because we have this image of LTR. that's why it's so difficult to get them... We have this visual image of our "future queen".
If we don't care about LTR with women, we wouldn't have any problem and wouldn't be AFC.
All that this post is about is really to get guys who are investing in the relationship at such an early age to protect their own heart.
If we don't care about LTR with women, we wouldn't have any problem and wouldn't be AFC.
All that this post is about is really to get guys who are investing in the relationship at such an early age to protect their own heart.