It's not "backwards" at all genius. Im stating purely that some girls wanna have fun and if a dude makes the mistake of trying to get serious with that kinda girl with that kind of mindset, he'll get burned. simple. if a girl wants her freedom dont matter how much "game" you have, trying to tie her down to something more than fun will end in drama. Period.bigjohnson said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girls under the age of 26
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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He said girls (not some girls) who are "at the age of less than 26 and ... attractive is not yet ready to settle" and you agreed he was "spot on".shinko said:It's not "backwards" at all genius. Im stating purely that some girls .
So is it all or some? Some I'd agree with, so make up your fucking mind and then get back to me.
shinko said:I recon your observations are spot on dannyegg.
dannyegg4575 said:First off, a girl at the age of less than 26 and she’s attractive, is not yet ready to settle.
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bigjohnson,
how many do you know who are willing to settle at home and not go out? how many do you know who are willing to settle for one?
With the divorce rate of 67%, how many of the 33% do you think fall into this category?
how many do you know who haven't cheated on their husband at that young age? how many do you know who have actually seen the world and think that marriage is the right thing at that age?
how many do you know who are willing to settle at home and not go out? how many do you know who are willing to settle for one?
With the divorce rate of 67%, how many of the 33% do you think fall into this category?
how many do you know who haven't cheated on their husband at that young age? how many do you know who have actually seen the world and think that marriage is the right thing at that age?
ready123
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what's the point of this thread? are you trying to set an absolute rule in stone that you should not LTR a girl under 26?
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My point is simple... as Suntzu said, "know thy enemy". in dating and relationships, there are no rules...
Many of us guys have false beliefs that a girl at a young age are ready to settle. They're not. By your constantly telling her how much you love her or needing her, you suffocate her. In her mind, she's thinking, "OMG, he's really into me... does that mean that I can't go out and have fun anymore?"
Many of us guys have false beliefs that a girl at a young age are ready to settle. They're not. By your constantly telling her how much you love her or needing her, you suffocate her. In her mind, she's thinking, "OMG, he's really into me... does that mean that I can't go out and have fun anymore?"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ready123
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where'd you get the idea that guys want LTR's more than women?
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reason we're AFC is because we have this image of LTR. that's why it's so difficult to get them... We have this visual image of our "future queen".
If we don't care about LTR with women, we wouldn't have any problem and wouldn't be AFC.
All that this post is about is really to get guys who are investing in the relationship at such an early age to protect their own heart.
If we don't care about LTR with women, we wouldn't have any problem and wouldn't be AFC.
All that this post is about is really to get guys who are investing in the relationship at such an early age to protect their own heart.