“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girls under the age of 26

shinko

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bigjohnson said:
This is the most ass-backwards thing I've seen in a LONG time. If they don't try to settle with you and tie you into something the issue has to be YOU dude.
It's not "backwards" at all genius. Im stating purely that some girls wanna have fun and if a dude makes the mistake of trying to get serious with that kinda girl with that kind of mindset, he'll get burned. simple. if a girl wants her freedom dont matter how much "game" you have, trying to tie her down to something more than fun will end in drama. Period.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shinko said:
It's not "backwards" at all genius. Im stating purely that some girls .
He said girls (not some girls) who are "at the age of less than 26 and ... attractive is not yet ready to settle" and you agreed he was "spot on".

So is it all or some? Some I'd agree with, so make up your fucking mind and then get back to me.



shinko said:
I recon your observations are spot on dannyegg.

dannyegg4575 said:
First off, a girl at the age of less than 26 and she’s attractive, is not yet ready to settle.
 

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bigjohnson,

how many do you know who are willing to settle at home and not go out? how many do you know who are willing to settle for one?
With the divorce rate of 67%, how many of the 33% do you think fall into this category?

how many do you know who haven't cheated on their husband at that young age? how many do you know who have actually seen the world and think that marriage is the right thing at that age?
 

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what's the point of this thread? are you trying to set an absolute rule in stone that you should not LTR a girl under 26?
 

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My point is simple... as Suntzu said, "know thy enemy". in dating and relationships, there are no rules...

Many of us guys have false beliefs that a girl at a young age are ready to settle. They're not. By your constantly telling her how much you love her or needing her, you suffocate her. In her mind, she's thinking, "OMG, he's really into me... does that mean that I can't go out and have fun anymore?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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where'd you get the idea that guys want LTR's more than women?
 

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reason we're AFC is because we have this image of LTR. that's why it's so difficult to get them... We have this visual image of our "future queen".
If we don't care about LTR with women, we wouldn't have any problem and wouldn't be AFC.

All that this post is about is really to get guys who are investing in the relationship at such an early age to protect their own heart.
 
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