I just cant bring myself to like a girl that smokes!!! you know what i mean! the reason i hate it so much, is because half of them smoke, because there trying to fit in! my gosh be urself!!!....whats u guys opinions on gurls that smoke...idk it might not even bother u guys
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girls that smoke!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
For a while it didn't bother me at all, there are actually some sorts that don't smell bad. And I suppose if the girl was good enough I wouldn't let the simple fact that she smoked stop me, though I would express my dislike for it, in most cases I think I'll just stay away from them I think.
familyguyfan
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Yeah I don't like them either.
However, I actually kind of like girls that smoke pot on occasion, or are at least open to it (I don't like the ones that are big druggies though, just the ones that do it only so often with some guys). I think it kind of shows that the girl is pretty outgoing and open to new things, which I like.
However, I actually kind of like girls that smoke pot on occasion, or are at least open to it (I don't like the ones that are big druggies though, just the ones that do it only so often with some guys). I think it kind of shows that the girl is pretty outgoing and open to new things, which I like.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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I'm completely against it, if I find out a girl smokes, she's got no chance with me anymore.
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boys, here's the secret: if they smoke, they poke.
consider yourselves enlightened.
consider yourselves enlightened.
Stratocaster
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I like a girl that experiments with pot some times...i agree it shows they are outgoing and whatnot.
But if a girl smokes cigs to look cool, and she does it around me, I tell her to her face right before she lights up:
"Before you light that up, realize that if you do I will not kiss or touch you in any way tonight. Girls like you do not need to smoke to look attractive or cool."
I never like telling a girl that she is attractive or hot all AFC like, but in this situation that's what I prefer to say. Makes me sound more wise and mature, most girls, especially younger ones, get turned on by that stuff.
By getting with a girl that smokes, or even worse dating a girl that smokes, I feel I am lowering my requirements. I tell the girl if she wants to be around me, she's not going to smoke cigs.
And yes, if they smoke they are usually more open to physical stuff, although I don't like a mouth full of tar and cig chemicals sloshin around on my ****.
My 8 cents...
But if a girl smokes cigs to look cool, and she does it around me, I tell her to her face right before she lights up:
"Before you light that up, realize that if you do I will not kiss or touch you in any way tonight. Girls like you do not need to smoke to look attractive or cool."
I never like telling a girl that she is attractive or hot all AFC like, but in this situation that's what I prefer to say. Makes me sound more wise and mature, most girls, especially younger ones, get turned on by that stuff.
By getting with a girl that smokes, or even worse dating a girl that smokes, I feel I am lowering my requirements. I tell the girl if she wants to be around me, she's not going to smoke cigs.
And yes, if they smoke they are usually more open to physical stuff, although I don't like a mouth full of tar and cig chemicals sloshin around on my ****.
My 8 cents...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Easy solution:
If her smoking turns you off completely, find some other chick that doesn't.
If her smoking is just a minor blemish in how amazingly hot and personable she is, then look past it, and maybe try to get her to stop.
Edit: by the way, not all girls smoke to look cool or hot. It's a drug. Some girls smoke because they're addicted to the ****.
If her smoking turns you off completely, find some other chick that doesn't.
If her smoking is just a minor blemish in how amazingly hot and personable she is, then look past it, and maybe try to get her to stop.
Edit: by the way, not all girls smoke to look cool or hot. It's a drug. Some girls smoke because they're addicted to the ****.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
NICE job spegon! This post is HOT look how many hits you got pimp. By the way I like your tan....hehe
EDIT: By the way he's talking about girls who "HOOK UP" with "MARY JANE" not ciggys.
EDIT: By the way he's talking about girls who "HOOK UP" with "MARY JANE" not ciggys.
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