I just cant bring myself to like a girl that smokes!!! you know what i mean! the reason i hate it so much, is because half of them smoke, because there trying to fit in! my gosh be urself!!!....whats u guys opinions on gurls that smoke...idk it might not even bother u guys
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girls that smoke!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
For a while it didn't bother me at all, there are actually some sorts that don't smell bad. And I suppose if the girl was good enough I wouldn't let the simple fact that she smoked stop me, though I would express my dislike for it, in most cases I think I'll just stay away from them I think.
familyguyfan
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Yeah I don't like them either.
However, I actually kind of like girls that smoke pot on occasion, or are at least open to it (I don't like the ones that are big druggies though, just the ones that do it only so often with some guys). I think it kind of shows that the girl is pretty outgoing and open to new things, which I like.
However, I actually kind of like girls that smoke pot on occasion, or are at least open to it (I don't like the ones that are big druggies though, just the ones that do it only so often with some guys). I think it kind of shows that the girl is pretty outgoing and open to new things, which I like.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I'm completely against it, if I find out a girl smokes, she's got no chance with me anymore.
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boys, here's the secret: if they smoke, they poke.
consider yourselves enlightened.
consider yourselves enlightened.
Stratocaster
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I like a girl that experiments with pot some times...i agree it shows they are outgoing and whatnot.
But if a girl smokes cigs to look cool, and she does it around me, I tell her to her face right before she lights up:
"Before you light that up, realize that if you do I will not kiss or touch you in any way tonight. Girls like you do not need to smoke to look attractive or cool."
I never like telling a girl that she is attractive or hot all AFC like, but in this situation that's what I prefer to say. Makes me sound more wise and mature, most girls, especially younger ones, get turned on by that stuff.
By getting with a girl that smokes, or even worse dating a girl that smokes, I feel I am lowering my requirements. I tell the girl if she wants to be around me, she's not going to smoke cigs.
And yes, if they smoke they are usually more open to physical stuff, although I don't like a mouth full of tar and cig chemicals sloshin around on my ****.
My 8 cents...
But if a girl smokes cigs to look cool, and she does it around me, I tell her to her face right before she lights up:
"Before you light that up, realize that if you do I will not kiss or touch you in any way tonight. Girls like you do not need to smoke to look attractive or cool."
I never like telling a girl that she is attractive or hot all AFC like, but in this situation that's what I prefer to say. Makes me sound more wise and mature, most girls, especially younger ones, get turned on by that stuff.
By getting with a girl that smokes, or even worse dating a girl that smokes, I feel I am lowering my requirements. I tell the girl if she wants to be around me, she's not going to smoke cigs.
And yes, if they smoke they are usually more open to physical stuff, although I don't like a mouth full of tar and cig chemicals sloshin around on my ****.
My 8 cents...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Easy solution:
If her smoking turns you off completely, find some other chick that doesn't.
If her smoking is just a minor blemish in how amazingly hot and personable she is, then look past it, and maybe try to get her to stop.
Edit: by the way, not all girls smoke to look cool or hot. It's a drug. Some girls smoke because they're addicted to the ****.
If her smoking turns you off completely, find some other chick that doesn't.
If her smoking is just a minor blemish in how amazingly hot and personable she is, then look past it, and maybe try to get her to stop.
Edit: by the way, not all girls smoke to look cool or hot. It's a drug. Some girls smoke because they're addicted to the ****.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
NICE job spegon! This post is HOT look how many hits you got pimp. By the way I like your tan....hehe
EDIT: By the way he's talking about girls who "HOOK UP" with "MARY JANE" not ciggys.
EDIT: By the way he's talking about girls who "HOOK UP" with "MARY JANE" not ciggys.
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