"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls that smoke!

S-lemond

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I just cant bring myself to like a girl that smokes!!! you know what i mean! the reason i hate it so much, is because half of them smoke, because there trying to fit in! my gosh be urself!!!....whats u guys opinions on gurls that smoke...idk it might not even bother u guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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For a while it didn't bother me at all, there are actually some sorts that don't smell bad. And I suppose if the girl was good enough I wouldn't let the simple fact that she smoked stop me, though I would express my dislike for it, in most cases I think I'll just stay away from them I think.
 

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yeah and just think of the bad breathe. For some reason girls that smoke remind me of prostitutes. And for the girls that do it just to be hard-asses, that is just deadset sad.
 

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Yeah I don't like them either.


However, I actually kind of like girls that smoke pot on occasion, or are at least open to it (I don't like the ones that are big druggies though, just the ones that do it only so often with some guys). I think it kind of shows that the girl is pretty outgoing and open to new things, which I like.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sinner

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i absolutely hate girls who smoke just to look cool...
 

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boys, here's the secret: if they smoke, they poke.

consider yourselves enlightened.
 

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I like a girl that experiments with pot some times...i agree it shows they are outgoing and whatnot.

But if a girl smokes cigs to look cool, and she does it around me, I tell her to her face right before she lights up:

"Before you light that up, realize that if you do I will not kiss or touch you in any way tonight. Girls like you do not need to smoke to look attractive or cool."

I never like telling a girl that she is attractive or hot all AFC like, but in this situation that's what I prefer to say. Makes me sound more wise and mature, most girls, especially younger ones, get turned on by that stuff.

By getting with a girl that smokes, or even worse dating a girl that smokes, I feel I am lowering my requirements. I tell the girl if she wants to be around me, she's not going to smoke cigs.

And yes, if they smoke they are usually more open to physical stuff, although I don't like a mouth full of tar and cig chemicals sloshin around on my ****.

My 8 cents...
 

S-lemond

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looks like were all on the same page in here!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Easy solution:

If her smoking turns you off completely, find some other chick that doesn't.

If her smoking is just a minor blemish in how amazingly hot and personable she is, then look past it, and maybe try to get her to stop.

Edit: by the way, not all girls smoke to look cool or hot. It's a drug. Some girls smoke because they're addicted to the ****.
 

B-Lemond

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NICE job spegon! This post is HOT look how many hits you got pimp. By the way I like your tan....hehe

EDIT: By the way he's talking about girls who "HOOK UP" with "MARY JANE" not ciggys.
 
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