"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In any case I've been approached by such woman several imes, no biggie, it's easier for you then because you are 100% sure there's interest on her end, just have her qualify herself to you.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
it totally threw me.
i thought they were going to gang rape me in the elevator. i didnt AFC though, i joked it up with them.
when chit like that happens it makes you realize how uncomfortable the world must be for women sometimes.
i mean, hey, i had no physical worries so it was just interesting.
i can't imagine how that must feel to women who don't know what an unknown guy (or guys) are capable of.
J
The thing is they're used to it. Like self-mastery said if they turn the tables on me and Im not expecting it at all it really throws me off my game.
If I could choose between having to approach and being approached all night, Id probably choose nr. 2 tho
Warrior Princess
Don Juan
I don't mind girls asking for my number, calling me and being forward or even a touch clingy, but sexually forward women in general put me off.
I actually had a woman try something resembling speed seduction with me once. She started talking about animal mating rituals and orgasms etc. Damn freak!
Before I even say anything, the UG of the group opens me with "Hey gorgeous" and I get assaulted with a barrage of compliments from the group as a whole. "I like your shirt" "You have pretty eyes" "I like your shoes" "You look like a skater... that's hot. Do you snowboard too?" I was caught completely off gaurd. I just kind of answered a few questions they threw at me, and then went to my room and tried to figure out what the hell just happened.
My game has improved a lot since then, though, and now I would probably agree with their compliments, bust on them for being too in love with me, joke that they could pay me for a date, tell them that they're all out of luck because I'm saving myself for when someone real special comes along (in a cheeky manner) and ask her what makes her so special. I'd have fun with it.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.