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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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no, I find it pretty cool.. besides I like turning sarges around to where it's as if she sarged me... I try to get her to ask for my # first .. etc..
In any case I've been approached by such woman several imes, no biggie, it's easier for you then because you are 100% sure there's interest on her end, just have her qualify herself to you.
In any case I've been approached by such woman several imes, no biggie, it's easier for you then because you are 100% sure there's interest on her end, just have her qualify herself to you.
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I'm inexperienced with sarging; women, who switch roles, completely throw me off my game.
I find it cool, too but yesterday I was approached so boldly that it put me in a situation where I was really uncomfortable and acted pretty immature and turned her down, but a little later I was like REALLY regretting it, because you dont get such a chance every day.. I was just wondering if somebody has made the same stupid mistake before 
yep, the other day there were these three women in the elevator with me. and they were in total sarge mode. they were all joking about how cute i was and joking about which one of them should get me.
it totally threw me.
i thought they were going to gang rape me in the elevator. i didnt AFC though, i joked it up with them.
when chit like that happens it makes you realize how uncomfortable the world must be for women sometimes.
i mean, hey, i had no physical worries so it was just interesting.
i can't imagine how that must feel to women who don't know what an unknown guy (or guys) are capable of.
J
it totally threw me.
i thought they were going to gang rape me in the elevator. i didnt AFC though, i joked it up with them.
when chit like that happens it makes you realize how uncomfortable the world must be for women sometimes.
i mean, hey, i had no physical worries so it was just interesting.
i can't imagine how that must feel to women who don't know what an unknown guy (or guys) are capable of.
J
The thing is they're used to it. Like self-mastery said if they turn the tables on me and Im not expecting it at all it really throws me off my game.
If I could choose between having to approach and being approached all night, Id probably choose nr. 2 tho
Warrior Princess
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I'm a female and I'm pretty aggressive and direct. I tend to ignore those who come to me first.
Yes, absolutely! I get approached every so often, but it's usually by sexually forward and over-confident women, which for me personally is a turn off. The same goes for women who are too sexual in terms of flirting too as it indicates they're easy (slvts) to me and I'm not into such women.
I don't mind girls asking for my number, calling me and being forward or even a touch clingy, but sexually forward women in general put me off.
I actually had a woman try something resembling speed seduction with me once. She started talking about animal mating rituals and orgasms etc. Damn freak!
I don't mind girls asking for my number, calling me and being forward or even a touch clingy, but sexually forward women in general put me off.
I actually had a woman try something resembling speed seduction with me once. She started talking about animal mating rituals and orgasms etc. Damn freak!
Yeah, I was walking back to my dorm rooms one day and it became apparent that my intended path would merge and place me right in the middle of a pack of 5 girls, overall pretty good looking, so I ended my phone call and got ready to chat.
Before I even say anything, the UG of the group opens me with "Hey gorgeous" and I get assaulted with a barrage of compliments from the group as a whole. "I like your shirt" "You have pretty eyes" "I like your shoes" "You look like a skater... that's hot. Do you snowboard too?" I was caught completely off gaurd. I just kind of answered a few questions they threw at me, and then went to my room and tried to figure out what the hell just happened.
My game has improved a lot since then, though, and now I would probably agree with their compliments, bust on them for being too in love with me, joke that they could pay me for a date, tell them that they're all out of luck because I'm saving myself for when someone real special comes along (in a cheeky manner) and ask her what makes her so special. I'd have fun with it.
Before I even say anything, the UG of the group opens me with "Hey gorgeous" and I get assaulted with a barrage of compliments from the group as a whole. "I like your shirt" "You have pretty eyes" "I like your shoes" "You look like a skater... that's hot. Do you snowboard too?" I was caught completely off gaurd. I just kind of answered a few questions they threw at me, and then went to my room and tried to figure out what the hell just happened.
My game has improved a lot since then, though, and now I would probably agree with their compliments, bust on them for being too in love with me, joke that they could pay me for a date, tell them that they're all out of luck because I'm saving myself for when someone real special comes along (in a cheeky manner) and ask her what makes her so special. I'd have fun with it.
chancer
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I was promoting for a party on campus and these girls just called me out (5 of them). So i grabed my balls and rolled up and damn... i felt so uncomfortable. they threw out all of the complements, asked me if i could give them a lil pre dance and ****. I got the number but... That group sarge was crazy. They set me up clean