"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls telling you that you have coldness in the stare...

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ImprovingJuan

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an argentinian girl i've met told me that she sees coldness in my eyes and that i look very mean and dominant... maybe its because i dont smile?

for those of you who speak spanish

Laura Angelica
En tu mirada se siente ... no sé , frialdad?asta pareces un poco malo para ser sincera al ver las fotos , feo no eres tampoco te dire que eres muuuyyyyyyyy guapo xDDD, pero manejas una cara de persona... dominante?

what do you guys think of this?

she's cute, a 6.5/7 maybe. why did she say this?is it a **** test or just got rejected?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry, cant help you, but yeah I have been told the same. Girls tell me I have too strong eye contact very cold and dominant looking and sometimes when talking I look in their eyes they look away so much

is this good or bad
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shes into you.

its just her imagination running wild. shes HOPING you are a dominant alpha with a bit of a mean streak. when you do get to nail her, make sure you man handle her. thats what this chick is looking for
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Jesus Christ.....
 
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A girl I know is always trying to hook me up with her friends. She has one in particular, who is just absurdly good-looking and went to an ivy league school, but is very family-orientated and goes out once a month and usually just has a drink or two before driving home. Obviously, I'm highly interested.

She told the girl I know that I had "deep eyes" and "peered into her soul". Haha. Nothing's come of it, but it was a weird compliment - a compliment nonetheless.
 
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MidnightCity said:
shes into you.

its just her imagination running wild. shes HOPING you are a dominant alpha with a bit of a mean streak. when you do get to nail her, make sure you man handle her. thats what this chick is looking for
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Hold my popcorn IM GONNA CHOKE ON THE KERNALS FROM LAUGHING TO HARD AHAHAHA
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some chick told me I have she love my eyes because they are so dark and she could apparently see everything in them
 
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