"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls telling you that you have coldness in the stare...

ImprovingJuan

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an argentinian girl i've met told me that she sees coldness in my eyes and that i look very mean and dominant... maybe its because i dont smile?

for those of you who speak spanish

Laura Angelica
En tu mirada se siente ... no sé , frialdad?asta pareces un poco malo para ser sincera al ver las fotos , feo no eres tampoco te dire que eres muuuyyyyyyyy guapo xDDD, pero manejas una cara de persona... dominante?

what do you guys think of this?

she's cute, a 6.5/7 maybe. why did she say this?is it a **** test or just got rejected?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Piers Nivens

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Sorry, cant help you, but yeah I have been told the same. Girls tell me I have too strong eye contact very cold and dominant looking and sometimes when talking I look in their eyes they look away so much

is this good or bad
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MidnightCity said:
shes into you.

its just her imagination running wild. shes HOPING you are a dominant alpha with a bit of a mean streak. when you do get to nail her, make sure you man handle her. thats what this chick is looking for
Jesus Christ.....
 

EbbsAndFlows

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A girl I know is always trying to hook me up with her friends. She has one in particular, who is just absurdly good-looking and went to an ivy league school, but is very family-orientated and goes out once a month and usually just has a drink or two before driving home. Obviously, I'm highly interested.

She told the girl I know that I had "deep eyes" and "peered into her soul". Haha. Nothing's come of it, but it was a weird compliment - a compliment nonetheless.
 

JohnChops

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MidnightCity said:
shes into you.

its just her imagination running wild. shes HOPING you are a dominant alpha with a bit of a mean streak. when you do get to nail her, make sure you man handle her. thats what this chick is looking for
Hold my popcorn IM GONNA CHOKE ON THE KERNALS FROM LAUGHING TO HARD AHAHAHA
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PeasantPlayer

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Some chick told me I have she love my eyes because they are so dark and she could apparently see everything in them
 
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