"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls telling you that you have coldness in the stare...

ImprovingJuan

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an argentinian girl i've met told me that she sees coldness in my eyes and that i look very mean and dominant... maybe its because i dont smile?

for those of you who speak spanish

Laura Angelica
En tu mirada se siente ... no sé , frialdad?asta pareces un poco malo para ser sincera al ver las fotos , feo no eres tampoco te dire que eres muuuyyyyyyyy guapo xDDD, pero manejas una cara de persona... dominante?

what do you guys think of this?

she's cute, a 6.5/7 maybe. why did she say this?is it a **** test or just got rejected?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Piers Nivens

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Sorry, cant help you, but yeah I have been told the same. Girls tell me I have too strong eye contact very cold and dominant looking and sometimes when talking I look in their eyes they look away so much

is this good or bad
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shes into you.

its just her imagination running wild. shes HOPING you are a dominant alpha with a bit of a mean streak. when you do get to nail her, make sure you man handle her. thats what this chick is looking for
Jesus Christ.....
 

EbbsAndFlows

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A girl I know is always trying to hook me up with her friends. She has one in particular, who is just absurdly good-looking and went to an ivy league school, but is very family-orientated and goes out once a month and usually just has a drink or two before driving home. Obviously, I'm highly interested.

She told the girl I know that I had "deep eyes" and "peered into her soul". Haha. Nothing's come of it, but it was a weird compliment - a compliment nonetheless.
 

JohnChops

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MidnightCity said:
shes into you.

its just her imagination running wild. shes HOPING you are a dominant alpha with a bit of a mean streak. when you do get to nail her, make sure you man handle her. thats what this chick is looking for
Hold my popcorn IM GONNA CHOKE ON THE KERNALS FROM LAUGHING TO HARD AHAHAHA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PeasantPlayer

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Some chick told me I have she love my eyes because they are so dark and she could apparently see everything in them
 
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