"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls telling me about other guys...

Crissco

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This is pissing me off. Went on a date last night, chick started to tell me about other dates, what the fu*k. Today i literally started talking to one chick and she told me shes going on a date tonight, hasnt even been an hr since we were talking!! Happened 3 times total in a week...

LOL..What gives, if there trying to get me jealous its not, all its doing is turning me off from them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Immaturity. Me personally.... I'd continue to mess with her but I wouldn't take her seriously. She is an attention wh0re.
 

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Crissco said:
Believe me I do. They never hear from me again(After i **** em). Its straight up disrespectful
I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
 

Crissco

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Brian Drake said:
This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
Always the crazys huh bro...I know that feeling lol

I think they feel its best to be honset right off the bat and spill it all out then letting you find out the hard way. It all comes down to them not wanting to be hurt again, but in the long run, it makes me run away, far far away.
 

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nismo-4 said:
I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
Fu*k no. I dont feed into there sh*t. I ALWAYS walk away when needed, i choose to either lead them on for a bit, fu*k them good and hard. Tell them i didnt feel a connection, leave em....Keep goin, finding new girls....etc
 
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