"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls telling me about other guys...

Crissco

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This is pissing me off. Went on a date last night, chick started to tell me about other dates, what the fu*k. Today i literally started talking to one chick and she told me shes going on a date tonight, hasnt even been an hr since we were talking!! Happened 3 times total in a week...

LOL..What gives, if there trying to get me jealous its not, all its doing is turning me off from them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Immaturity. Me personally.... I'd continue to mess with her but I wouldn't take her seriously. She is an attention wh0re.
 

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Crissco said:
Believe me I do. They never hear from me again(After i **** em). Its straight up disrespectful
I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
 

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Brian Drake said:
This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
Always the crazys huh bro...I know that feeling lol

I think they feel its best to be honset right off the bat and spill it all out then letting you find out the hard way. It all comes down to them not wanting to be hurt again, but in the long run, it makes me run away, far far away.
 

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nismo-4 said:
I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
Fu*k no. I dont feed into there sh*t. I ALWAYS walk away when needed, i choose to either lead them on for a bit, fu*k them good and hard. Tell them i didnt feel a connection, leave em....Keep goin, finding new girls....etc
 
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