"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is pissing me off. Went on a date last night, chick started to tell me about other dates, what the fu*k. Today i literally started talking to one chick and she told me shes going on a date tonight, hasnt even been an hr since we were talking!! Happened 3 times total in a week...

LOL..What gives, if there trying to get me jealous its not, all its doing is turning me off from them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Immaturity. Me personally.... I'd continue to mess with her but I wouldn't take her seriously. She is an attention wh0re.
 
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Crissco said:
Believe me I do. They never hear from me again(After i **** em). Its straight up disrespectful
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I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
 
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Brian Drake said:
This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
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Always the crazys huh bro...I know that feeling lol

I think they feel its best to be honset right off the bat and spill it all out then letting you find out the hard way. It all comes down to them not wanting to be hurt again, but in the long run, it makes me run away, far far away.
 
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I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
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Fu*k no. I dont feed into there sh*t. I ALWAYS walk away when needed, i choose to either lead them on for a bit, fu*k them good and hard. Tell them i didnt feel a connection, leave em....Keep goin, finding new girls....etc
 
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