"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls telling me about other guys...

Crissco

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This is pissing me off. Went on a date last night, chick started to tell me about other dates, what the fu*k. Today i literally started talking to one chick and she told me shes going on a date tonight, hasnt even been an hr since we were talking!! Happened 3 times total in a week...

LOL..What gives, if there trying to get me jealous its not, all its doing is turning me off from them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Immaturity. Me personally.... I'd continue to mess with her but I wouldn't take her seriously. She is an attention wh0re.
 

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Crissco said:
Believe me I do. They never hear from me again(After i **** em). Its straight up disrespectful
I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
 

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Brian Drake said:
This has happened to me before, too. Two girls in a row. Not only did they tell me about the other guys that have done them wrong, but one talked about her medications which she needed to "get out of bed every morning." Anxiety pills, depression pills, XYZ pills, all this stuff she dumped on me before dinner arrived at the table.

I didn't call either of them a second time.
Always the crazys huh bro...I know that feeling lol

I think they feel its best to be honset right off the bat and spill it all out then letting you find out the hard way. It all comes down to them not wanting to be hurt again, but in the long run, it makes me run away, far far away.
 

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I'm glad to see somebody here has a backbone. I expected this to be a oneitis case, but it's not!

Or you can cut these girls off mid sentence. I'm not interested in your facebook orbiters.

Ultimately, accept the fact that she's an attention wh0re and you need not feed her.
Fu*k no. I dont feed into there sh*t. I ALWAYS walk away when needed, i choose to either lead them on for a bit, fu*k them good and hard. Tell them i didnt feel a connection, leave em....Keep goin, finding new girls....etc
 
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