Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NO....never.Originally posted by anile8
i was wondering we go on sites like sosuave, so do chicks go on websites and chat on forums about guys? im guessing so but does anyone have the address of one of these sites
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How does the irate feminist post read?Originally posted by doctor
ROFLs girls must love what they read on this site. It must read like 'COPYRIGHT JACKASSES TM' I can see the irate feminists posts now!
Say what nigga? "copyright jackasses TM" they supposed to come on this site and saying that nothing we say is new in any way at all? We put nothing unique into what we say, should I agree with you on this, or are you just laughing about nothing?Originally posted by doctor
ROFLs girls must love what they read on this site. It must read like 'COPYRIGHT JACKASSES TM' I can see the irate feminists posts now!