I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NO....never.Originally posted by anile8
i was wondering we go on sites like sosuave, so do chicks go on websites and chat on forums about guys? im guessing so but does anyone have the address of one of these sites
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How does the irate feminist post read?Originally posted by doctor
ROFLs girls must love what they read on this site. It must read like 'COPYRIGHT JACKASSES TM' I can see the irate feminists posts now!
Say what nigga? "copyright jackasses TM" they supposed to come on this site and saying that nothing we say is new in any way at all? We put nothing unique into what we say, should I agree with you on this, or are you just laughing about nothing?Originally posted by doctor
ROFLs girls must love what they read on this site. It must read like 'COPYRIGHT JACKASSES TM' I can see the irate feminists posts now!