Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NO....never.Originally posted by anile8
i was wondering we go on sites like sosuave, so do chicks go on websites and chat on forums about guys? im guessing so but does anyone have the address of one of these sites
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How does the irate feminist post read?Originally posted by doctor
ROFLs girls must love what they read on this site. It must read like 'COPYRIGHT JACKASSES TM' I can see the irate feminists posts now!
Say what nigga? "copyright jackasses TM" they supposed to come on this site and saying that nothing we say is new in any way at all? We put nothing unique into what we say, should I agree with you on this, or are you just laughing about nothing?Originally posted by doctor
ROFLs girls must love what they read on this site. It must read like 'COPYRIGHT JACKASSES TM' I can see the irate feminists posts now!