Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls seem to ignore me!!!

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ImprovingJuan

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i don't know if it's my appearance or my personality but it seems i'm Mr. Invisible for girls. i never lost hope and know that i found this webpage i have some weapons i can use to my help. i read here about a webpage http://www.hotornot i was thinking of putting a pic there to see what girls and people in general think of me as a man. i'm not hot i think but i'm not a monster, but getting my pic checked by gays or people just wanting to make fun sucks so i forgot that webpage. i could put it here so you guys could give an honest and neutral opinion on it. well i don't need other's approval, i'am what i am but if i can change something and is for better so let it be. of course i'm assuming this board and this is my first post but i've been here reading lots of stuff is for males who like woman, so i guess any gay comments are out of question so that's great

http://gmail.google.com/gmail?view=att&disp=attd&attid=0.1&th=101503f97b6851e1

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http://gmail.google.com/gmail?view=att&disp=inline&attid=0.1&th=101503ac1ddd7f4e

i'm the guy in black.

edit: i'm not doing this to get my ego boosted or the contrary, i just wanna some opinions.maybe the problem is not physical but in my attitude, i seriously don't know...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well i don't need other's approval,

If this were true, you wouldn't have contemplated putting your pic on hotornot. And to make matters worse, you didn't follow through because you're 'weak', you couldn't of handled the criticism. True Alpha's, DJ's, don't care what others think of them. They walk around like they're the shiot because they 'are'. I know this may seem a little mean, but once in a while we all need a little 'tough love' to kick our butts into gear.

maybe the problem is not physical but in my attitude

gee, ya think?
 
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Why? What are you afraid of? Are you not secure with your manhood?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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of course i am secure, i may have some insecurity problems but my manhood is not one of them that's for sure.
 
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Approach! Start up the convos, don't wait for them to take control.

I had the same problem as you, and not only with girls, just people in general. What made it go away is me realizing how desperate I was for others' attention. You dont wanna be the needy kid desperate to fit in. Be cool and relaxed, and you will get noticed.
 
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my manhood is not one of them that's for sure

so gay comments shouldn't bother you then...
 
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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
my manhood is not one of them that's for sure

so gay comments shouldn't bother you then...
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Actually, from a logistical perspective receiving compliments from gay men are goods things taking that a lot of them are very picky, even pickier than most women. I think you should still stop them if one tried getting a little too close, though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hm. Well maybe you ought to make yourself visible to these girls. Just go up there and talk to them - if you approach girls, girls will eventually approach you.
 
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I have a gay friend (shocking music here). And I am not a single bit afraid of him. When he said he would date me if I didnt have a gf, I just took it as a compliment (more shocking music!:eek: ). 6 months ago, I'd freak and cut all contact, but now I am comfortable with my sexuality, and don't care. Besides, rgeere hit the nail on the head. Gays are way more sensitive about fine details than the rest of the guys, and even some of the girls. That's why their sense of style and fashion is very good (please, if you like wearing pants so low that any moment they could become socks, combined with dirty urban hoodies, then don't argue with me about fashion or a sense of. thanx).

Besides, they won't steal your chicks :D
 
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Redneck
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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