"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls looking for the "one".

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How do you seduce girls who are looking for that one special guy, who will marry them?
By the way, this girl has not been shagged, and has no idea about "the game"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol... i thought about the same thing a while back this is what ya do..

rappaport.. its all in that "specail connection" the stronger you can make that the easyer time you'll have. say things likes "oh my gosh me 2! "i know!".. i think its called meing. look it up, um try to link things between you 2.. "hot dog, i love hot dog... i love it so much bla bla.. bs... and also try the "special connection pattern" ... just try to make a connction, obsurve her, give her genuin compliments that most people wouldnt notice. if there is something you 2 have in common really dwell on it, draw it out ya know? hope it helped
 

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Yeah, seems like a good idea. Cheers.
 

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Girls are liars.

Look at it this way, would she turn down a guy that she was attracted to? No, because he may be "the one." Screw that bullshit. It doesn't matter who you are, if you have the attraction, she will turn you into "the one."

Treat her as any other girl. Take her out on dates. Kiss her just like anyone else. If she becomes attracted to you, you'll become whatever she wants you to become. In her eyes anyways. You'll still be the ****y funny guy that she dated, she won't be able to understand her attraction to you and that only increases her interest further bringing you closer to "the one."

One of the reasons girls do stuff like this is so that people don't call them sluts or say they date around. It's just like with girls and sex. Girls enjoy sex just as much as men, if not more. But they will hold back in fear of social and public humiliation.
 
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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
lol... i thought about the same thing a while back this is what ya do..

rappaport.. its all in that "specail connection" the stronger you can make that the easyer time you'll have. say things likes "oh my gosh me 2! "i know!".. i think its called meing. look it up, um try to link things between you 2.. "hot dog, i love hot dog... i love it so much bla bla.. bs... and also try the "special connection pattern" ... just try to make a connction, obsurve her, give her genuin compliments that most people wouldnt notice. if there is something you 2 have in common really dwell on it, draw it out ya know? hope it helped
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree with the above gentleman, besides it kind've seems as though your trying to make friends unstead of trying to get the point across that you WANT her.
Which is still a problem I deal with today. Just don't come off as an emotional tampon. Have your own views, if she doesn't like them then she can hit the road.
Nothing wrong with agreeing but when you keep agreeing with her before you know it she's gonna be calling you to go shopping with her and her girlfriends to pick out clothes...
 

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.
Thank you. You are part of my "favorite posters."
 
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