Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls looking for the "one".

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How do you seduce girls who are looking for that one special guy, who will marry them?
By the way, this girl has not been shagged, and has no idea about "the game"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol... i thought about the same thing a while back this is what ya do..

rappaport.. its all in that "specail connection" the stronger you can make that the easyer time you'll have. say things likes "oh my gosh me 2! "i know!".. i think its called meing. look it up, um try to link things between you 2.. "hot dog, i love hot dog... i love it so much bla bla.. bs... and also try the "special connection pattern" ... just try to make a connction, obsurve her, give her genuin compliments that most people wouldnt notice. if there is something you 2 have in common really dwell on it, draw it out ya know? hope it helped
 

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Yeah, seems like a good idea. Cheers.
 

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Girls are liars.

Look at it this way, would she turn down a guy that she was attracted to? No, because he may be "the one." Screw that bullshit. It doesn't matter who you are, if you have the attraction, she will turn you into "the one."

Treat her as any other girl. Take her out on dates. Kiss her just like anyone else. If she becomes attracted to you, you'll become whatever she wants you to become. In her eyes anyways. You'll still be the ****y funny guy that she dated, she won't be able to understand her attraction to you and that only increases her interest further bringing you closer to "the one."

One of the reasons girls do stuff like this is so that people don't call them sluts or say they date around. It's just like with girls and sex. Girls enjoy sex just as much as men, if not more. But they will hold back in fear of social and public humiliation.
 
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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
lol... i thought about the same thing a while back this is what ya do..

rappaport.. its all in that "specail connection" the stronger you can make that the easyer time you'll have. say things likes "oh my gosh me 2! "i know!".. i think its called meing. look it up, um try to link things between you 2.. "hot dog, i love hot dog... i love it so much bla bla.. bs... and also try the "special connection pattern" ... just try to make a connction, obsurve her, give her genuin compliments that most people wouldnt notice. if there is something you 2 have in common really dwell on it, draw it out ya know? hope it helped
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree with the above gentleman, besides it kind've seems as though your trying to make friends unstead of trying to get the point across that you WANT her.
Which is still a problem I deal with today. Just don't come off as an emotional tampon. Have your own views, if she doesn't like them then she can hit the road.
Nothing wrong with agreeing but when you keep agreeing with her before you know it she's gonna be calling you to go shopping with her and her girlfriends to pick out clothes...
 

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.
Thank you. You are part of my "favorite posters."
 
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