Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
lol... i thought about the same thing a while back this is what ya do..
rappaport.. its all in that "specail connection" the stronger you can make that the easyer time you'll have. say things likes "oh my gosh me 2! "i know!".. i think its called meing. look it up, um try to link things between you 2.. "hot dog, i love hot dog... i love it so much bla bla.. bs... and also try the "special connection pattern" ... just try to make a connction, obsurve her, give her genuin compliments that most people wouldnt notice. if there is something you 2 have in common really dwell on it, draw it out ya know? hope it helped
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thank you. You are part of my "favorite posters."Originally posted by This Times For Real
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.