Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
lol... i thought about the same thing a while back this is what ya do..
rappaport.. its all in that "specail connection" the stronger you can make that the easyer time you'll have. say things likes "oh my gosh me 2! "i know!".. i think its called meing. look it up, um try to link things between you 2.. "hot dog, i love hot dog... i love it so much bla bla.. bs... and also try the "special connection pattern" ... just try to make a connction, obsurve her, give her genuin compliments that most people wouldnt notice. if there is something you 2 have in common really dwell on it, draw it out ya know? hope it helped
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Thank you. You are part of my "favorite posters."Originally posted by This Times For Real
Well you should have your own opinions about things. Saying you like something just to amke her like you more is an afc thing to do.