MatureDJ
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I will admit that this trade mogs almost every other one around, so I could see at least some chicks giving the worker a much higher level of interest.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girls like older men confirmed
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MatureDJ
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I don't have a fear of heights - I have a fear of the impact force that would result were I to fall from a great height.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
All but 2 of the women I’ve bern with have been younger.
So I went to an electronic music show in the city a couple weeks ago. There was this hot 19yr old emo chick next to me. I started dancing by myself. She edged closer. I put out my hand for a high five. We started talking.
We then ran away to a more secluded area. We talked for hours almost face to face even though I was almost 20yrs older. I could not do anything because my homies gf was watching me. She knows im in a relationship. Plus I felt guilty.
I also told her I was attached. She asked if I loved her.
Yes if you keep yourself looking good you will be able to get young chicks with daddy issues. I have no problem with girls in their early 20s. They dont care as long as you dont look like a dad.
We then ran away to a more secluded area. We talked for hours almost face to face even though I was almost 20yrs older. I could not do anything because my homies gf was watching me. She knows im in a relationship. Plus I felt guilty.
I also told her I was attached. She asked if I loved her.
Yes if you keep yourself looking good you will be able to get young chicks with daddy issues. I have no problem with girls in their early 20s. They dont care as long as you dont look like a dad.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Great post!
I was thinking about IRATA for some time. I think if things go south with my actual sales gig im swinging the rope.
I was thinking about IRATA for some time. I think if things go south with my actual sales gig im swinging the rope.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mertz09
Senior Don Juan
I want that job!!!