MatureDJ
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I will admit that this trade mogs almost every other one around, so I could see at least some chicks giving the worker a much higher level of interest.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girls like older men confirmed
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MatureDJ
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I don't have a fear of heights - I have a fear of the impact force that would result were I to fall from a great height.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
All but 2 of the women I’ve bern with have been younger.
So I went to an electronic music show in the city a couple weeks ago. There was this hot 19yr old emo chick next to me. I started dancing by myself. She edged closer. I put out my hand for a high five. We started talking.
We then ran away to a more secluded area. We talked for hours almost face to face even though I was almost 20yrs older. I could not do anything because my homies gf was watching me. She knows im in a relationship. Plus I felt guilty.
I also told her I was attached. She asked if I loved her.
Yes if you keep yourself looking good you will be able to get young chicks with daddy issues. I have no problem with girls in their early 20s. They dont care as long as you dont look like a dad.
We then ran away to a more secluded area. We talked for hours almost face to face even though I was almost 20yrs older. I could not do anything because my homies gf was watching me. She knows im in a relationship. Plus I felt guilty.
I also told her I was attached. She asked if I loved her.
Yes if you keep yourself looking good you will be able to get young chicks with daddy issues. I have no problem with girls in their early 20s. They dont care as long as you dont look like a dad.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Great post!
I was thinking about IRATA for some time. I think if things go south with my actual sales gig im swinging the rope.
I was thinking about IRATA for some time. I think if things go south with my actual sales gig im swinging the rope.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mertz09
Senior Don Juan
I want that job!!!