"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls keep begging for exclusiveness. How to avoid?

Dhoulmagus

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First girl, I slipped because I had never had a gf before. It endrd badly and I've been trying to steer clear of relationships. Now, this girl is begging me to go exclusive with her. Both girls said they didnt want me to be sleeping around with other girls and them at the same time. I told the last girl that I'm not boyfriend material, but she still keeps bringing it up. I don't want them sleeping around with other men, but that's hypocritical lol.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else"

Woman: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else ((until I find someone else that I would like to sleep with))" :nono:
 

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logicallefty said:
Man: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else"

Woman: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else ((until I find someone else that I would like to sleep with))" :nono:
Exactly!!!!
 

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I agree that this is a difficult one. The woman I've been seeing for four month has been hassling me for exclusive for the last two month. I've just told her that "we'll see what happens " I've got her stumped now though because something important that happened earlier in her life, well she wont tell me what it is....so I told her :-

Rainman :- well if you aren't going to share then maybe we aren't ready for relationship.

HB7.5 :- YOU ARE SO CRAFTY. THATS A VERY SMART MOVE YOU'VE JUST MADE THERE.

Rainman:- What? (acting innocent & unaware)

HB7.5 :- well that's what a women would say. You've just used a womans tactic.

Rainman :- Well I don't know what your on about, but I stand by what I said.

That has stalled her for a few weeks :) I think the answer to your question dhouglas is just do what you want to do
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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