Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Girls keep begging for exclusiveness. How to avoid?

Dhoulmagus

Banned
Joined
Sep 11, 2013
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
169
First girl, I slipped because I had never had a gf before. It endrd badly and I've been trying to steer clear of relationships. Now, this girl is begging me to go exclusive with her. Both girls said they didnt want me to be sleeping around with other girls and them at the same time. I told the last girl that I'm not boyfriend material, but she still keeps bringing it up. I don't want them sleeping around with other men, but that's hypocritical lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

logicallefty

Moderator
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
5,993
Reaction score
5,136
Age
52
Location
Northeast Florida, USA
Man: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else"

Woman: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else ((until I find someone else that I would like to sleep with))" :nono:
 

Dhoulmagus

Banned
Joined
Sep 11, 2013
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
169
logicallefty said:
Man: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else"

Woman: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else ((until I find someone else that I would like to sleep with))" :nono:
Exactly!!!!
 

Rainman4707

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2012
Messages
1,729
Reaction score
601
I agree that this is a difficult one. The woman I've been seeing for four month has been hassling me for exclusive for the last two month. I've just told her that "we'll see what happens " I've got her stumped now though because something important that happened earlier in her life, well she wont tell me what it is....so I told her :-

Rainman :- well if you aren't going to share then maybe we aren't ready for relationship.

HB7.5 :- YOU ARE SO CRAFTY. THATS A VERY SMART MOVE YOU'VE JUST MADE THERE.

Rainman:- What? (acting innocent & unaware)

HB7.5 :- well that's what a women would say. You've just used a womans tactic.

Rainman :- Well I don't know what your on about, but I stand by what I said.

That has stalled her for a few weeks :) I think the answer to your question dhouglas is just do what you want to do
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top