"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls keep begging for exclusiveness. How to avoid?

Dhoulmagus

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First girl, I slipped because I had never had a gf before. It endrd badly and I've been trying to steer clear of relationships. Now, this girl is begging me to go exclusive with her. Both girls said they didnt want me to be sleeping around with other girls and them at the same time. I told the last girl that I'm not boyfriend material, but she still keeps bringing it up. I don't want them sleeping around with other men, but that's hypocritical lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else"

Woman: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else ((until I find someone else that I would like to sleep with))" :nono:
 

Dhoulmagus

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logicallefty said:
Man: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else"

Woman: "I promise not to sleep with anyone else ((until I find someone else that I would like to sleep with))" :nono:
Exactly!!!!
 

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I agree that this is a difficult one. The woman I've been seeing for four month has been hassling me for exclusive for the last two month. I've just told her that "we'll see what happens " I've got her stumped now though because something important that happened earlier in her life, well she wont tell me what it is....so I told her :-

Rainman :- well if you aren't going to share then maybe we aren't ready for relationship.

HB7.5 :- YOU ARE SO CRAFTY. THATS A VERY SMART MOVE YOU'VE JUST MADE THERE.

Rainman:- What? (acting innocent & unaware)

HB7.5 :- well that's what a women would say. You've just used a womans tactic.

Rainman :- Well I don't know what your on about, but I stand by what I said.

That has stalled her for a few weeks :) I think the answer to your question dhouglas is just do what you want to do
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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