"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now. It's very long distance, there's an entire ocean between us but I still like her. I have noticed that she never initiate any talks with me. She will respond fairly quickly when I contact her but she will never be the first one to even inquire how my day went. Sometimes I don't talk to her for days because I am really busy. I just started to think that the lack of her starting conversations might just be the lack of interest.
Am I reading too much into this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Amante Silvestre said:
What country is she in?

She's could be talking to 20 guys long distance, isn't going to hunt down each one every day to ask how their days went, but responds quickly to each guy to keep that green card door open?
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I don't think the green card is the reason really, she has her own money, a really good job and could travel anywhere she wants to.
 
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Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
 
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It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
 
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MrJack said:
It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
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I plan on meeting up in the futur for sure. She is from my home country. I currently live in Canada and will some time go visit.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tilex said:
Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
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She is not fake, she was introduced to me by a family member who is friends with her. I do plan on meeting her.
 
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