"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GIRLS INITIATING CONVERSATIONS

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I have been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now. It's very long distance, there's an entire ocean between us but I still like her. I have noticed that she never initiate any talks with me. She will respond fairly quickly when I contact her but she will never be the first one to even inquire how my day went. Sometimes I don't talk to her for days because I am really busy. I just started to think that the lack of her starting conversations might just be the lack of interest.
Am I reading too much into this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Amante Silvestre said:
What country is she in?

She's could be talking to 20 guys long distance, isn't going to hunt down each one every day to ask how their days went, but responds quickly to each guy to keep that green card door open?
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I don't think the green card is the reason really, she has her own money, a really good job and could travel anywhere she wants to.
 
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Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
 
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It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
 
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MrJack said:
It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
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I plan on meeting up in the futur for sure. She is from my home country. I currently live in Canada and will some time go visit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tilex said:
Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
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She is not fake, she was introduced to me by a family member who is friends with her. I do plan on meeting her.
 
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