"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now. It's very long distance, there's an entire ocean between us but I still like her. I have noticed that she never initiate any talks with me. She will respond fairly quickly when I contact her but she will never be the first one to even inquire how my day went. Sometimes I don't talk to her for days because I am really busy. I just started to think that the lack of her starting conversations might just be the lack of interest.
Am I reading too much into this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Amante Silvestre said:
What country is she in?

She's could be talking to 20 guys long distance, isn't going to hunt down each one every day to ask how their days went, but responds quickly to each guy to keep that green card door open?
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I don't think the green card is the reason really, she has her own money, a really good job and could travel anywhere she wants to.
 
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Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
 
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It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
 
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MrJack said:
It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
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I plan on meeting up in the futur for sure. She is from my home country. I currently live in Canada and will some time go visit.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tilex said:
Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
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She is not fake, she was introduced to me by a family member who is friends with her. I do plan on meeting her.
 
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