"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now. It's very long distance, there's an entire ocean between us but I still like her. I have noticed that she never initiate any talks with me. She will respond fairly quickly when I contact her but she will never be the first one to even inquire how my day went. Sometimes I don't talk to her for days because I am really busy. I just started to think that the lack of her starting conversations might just be the lack of interest.
Am I reading too much into this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Amante Silvestre said:
What country is she in?

She's could be talking to 20 guys long distance, isn't going to hunt down each one every day to ask how their days went, but responds quickly to each guy to keep that green card door open?
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I don't think the green card is the reason really, she has her own money, a really good job and could travel anywhere she wants to.
 
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Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
 
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It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
 
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MrJack said:
It’s a waste of time talking to her if she’s that far away unless you have plans to meetup at some point? If not then what are you trying to accomplish here?
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I plan on meeting up in the futur for sure. She is from my home country. I currently live in Canada and will some time go visit.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tilex said:
Online relationships are fake as hell.
You're too invested in something imponderable.
Take everything with grain of salt when you meet people online.
For all you know it could be a guy on the other end or a married chick with 5 kids.
All I'm saying is keep your emotions in check.
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She is not fake, she was introduced to me by a family member who is friends with her. I do plan on meeting her.
 
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