"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I got left on read by this girl. She was a friend of my friend, Friend A. So I’m out tonight and I see my Friend A has another attractive friend. So do I hit on her even though the friend I failed with is in the same social circle?



Sorry if this post is badly worded this is the best I can describe it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nicksaiz65 said:
I got left on read by this girl. She was a friend of my friend, Friend A. So I’m out tonight and I see my Friend A has another attractive friend. So do I hit on her even though the friend I failed with is in the same social circle?



Sorry if this post is badly worded this is the best I can describe it.
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Yes dgaf and go for it.
 
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Let's hope she won't tell herself : "If my friend rejected him, why should I give him a chance?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lamath has a different perspective because he has high SMV in his social circle, so it works for him differently. Women f with him, he is a curiosity. You OP have low SMV, a chick didn't give you. How that friend of a friend reacts to you depends on how you come across and what is being said about you. So long as they don't cut you out of their social circle it's fine to hit to her, and only if she's giving you IOI's.
 
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backseatjuan said:
Lamath has a different perspective because he has high SMV in his social circle, so it works for him differently. Women f with him, he is a curiosity. You OP have low SMV, a chick didn't give you. How that friend of a friend reacts to you depends on how you come across and what is being said about you. So long as they don't cut you out of their social circle it's fine to hit to her, and only if she's giving you IOI's.
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If he can have the attitude of ngaf it cant be bad.
Action is better than inaction. Worst case its a good learning experience.

Ofc its not the best but if said girl rejected him does that mean he cant go for any of her friend anymore?

If that the case his situation in that circle of friend has been establish so he got nothing to lose.
 
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