"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls in the same social circle?

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I got left on read by this girl. She was a friend of my friend, Friend A. So I’m out tonight and I see my Friend A has another attractive friend. So do I hit on her even though the friend I failed with is in the same social circle?



Sorry if this post is badly worded this is the best I can describe it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nicksaiz65 said:
I got left on read by this girl. She was a friend of my friend, Friend A. So I’m out tonight and I see my Friend A has another attractive friend. So do I hit on her even though the friend I failed with is in the same social circle?



Sorry if this post is badly worded this is the best I can describe it.
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Yes dgaf and go for it.
 
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Let's hope she won't tell herself : "If my friend rejected him, why should I give him a chance?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lamath has a different perspective because he has high SMV in his social circle, so it works for him differently. Women f with him, he is a curiosity. You OP have low SMV, a chick didn't give you. How that friend of a friend reacts to you depends on how you come across and what is being said about you. So long as they don't cut you out of their social circle it's fine to hit to her, and only if she's giving you IOI's.
 
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backseatjuan said:
Lamath has a different perspective because he has high SMV in his social circle, so it works for him differently. Women f with him, he is a curiosity. You OP have low SMV, a chick didn't give you. How that friend of a friend reacts to you depends on how you come across and what is being said about you. So long as they don't cut you out of their social circle it's fine to hit to her, and only if she's giving you IOI's.
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If he can have the attitude of ngaf it cant be bad.
Action is better than inaction. Worst case its a good learning experience.

Ofc its not the best but if said girl rejected him does that mean he cant go for any of her friend anymore?

If that the case his situation in that circle of friend has been establish so he got nothing to lose.
 
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